A Year in the Fulbright Life: Nagham’s Story

A Year in the Fulbright Life showcases selected Fulbright MENA participants’ program year, month by month, in the United States. 

August 2021

I met a Lebanese Fulbright alumna and PhD student at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. She was looking for help to move apartments. Afterwards, she helped me move as well and helped me adjust to my new life in Knoxville.

Two women posing in the front of a UHaul.
Woman posing in the back of truck.

These are six out of the nine graduate students in my new program. I do believe I have landed among some of the sweetest, kindest, and most supportive students of all the programs. Each one of them has proven to be a great friend and support system in my journey in the United States so far. We go out every Wednesday and watch a “cohort series” after our weekly three-hour statistics class.

People standing outside.

I moved to the Intercultural and Classroom Culture Research Lab as a Research and Teaching Assistant.

When I landed in Washington D.C., there was a mistake in the flight booking and I wound up missing my domestic flight to Knoxville. No one would accept my payments in cash (I did not have a debit card at the time), and I did not know anyone in D.C. I was stranded, crying in the airport of a country I had never been to, and wasn’t sure what to do. Luckily, a Lebanese-American family found me and took me in! We drove across Virginia for six hours, slept at their house, then they drove me to Knoxville the next morning. The mother still calls to check up on me continuously and even sent me a housewarming gift after moving into my new apartment!

Women posing outside next to a street.

Here I am on the first day of class with my first and closest friend in the United States! She took me shopping before moving in and has been teaching me all about the United States. In return, I am making sure the Lebanese cuisine becomes her favorite (which has been a success so far)!

Two women taking selfies.

September 2021

My classmates and I organized a trip to Sevierville, Tennessee, where we went deer petting, had a southern-styled lunch, and went to the apple barn where they sell all things related to apples as well as an all-year-long Christmas-themed factory!

Two women posing outside next to a lake.

There are no words for this picture! I have to say that this is my favorite picture of me of all time from the deer petting zoo. Look at how the deer’s ear is resting on my head!!!! I have been THRILLED to discover all the adorable animals in the United States (deer and squirrels included) that many people here don’t appreciate enough!

Woman posing with deer.

I finally reconnected in person with the family that took care of me when I had a difficult time at the D.C. airport. I’m so happy I will be spending my fall break at their house next month!

Tw women posing at a restaurant table.

October 2021

These pictures are from my Fall Break in Virginia! I went to see the Lebanese-American family that I met at the airport when I first arrived, and we had a lovely time!

Woman posing on a trail with a bike.
Woman posing on a bridge over a lake.

Over the weekend, we had a delicious meal that is typical for Lebanese people on Sundays.

Group of people sitting with a table of food.

We also went on a 10-mile biking trip on Creeper’s Trail in Virginia with four other Lebanese American families in East Tennessee, on the border of Virginia.

Group of people posing next to a road with bikes.

I got to celebrate my friend Cailyn for her birthday. She was my first friend in the United States, and is now closest friend here!

Two women posing in a restuarant.

My cohort took a trip to Asheville in North Carolina!

Woman posing on a trail in a dress outside in front of a mountain.

Nothing much to say here, just a fall vibe! On a serious note though, I really didn’t know making pumpkin soup was such a heavy arm workout!!

Woman posing with a pumpkin on an apartment deck.

For Halloween, I dressed as a scare-crow and spent the night at my friend’s house with our cohort.

Woman dressed as a scarecrow next to another scarecrow.

November 2021

November marked my birthday month! My classmates and I celebrated my 21st birthday by getting dinner at a delicious Lebanese restaurant!

Woman posing outside near an apartment.
Group of people posing at night on a street.
Woman posing at night with flowers.

My lab-mate (and now very good friend) is an Indian international student, and we decided to decorate the lab to celebrate both Christmas and Diwali! Two of the faculty members who have offices next to our lab really admired the lights we hung up and wanted to take a picture with me!

A man and woman taking a selfie.
Three women posing inside with masks.

My roommate and I have become very close this semester. We’ve been having our own cultural exchanges by sharing information about our backgrounds. I’ve even turned her into a Lebanese food-lover, and she now orders Mediterranean food options any time she’s at a restaurant! The cat that we featured in our polaroid picture (his name is Oreo!) was left behind by his owners alone in the rain. Sadly, a group of racoons destroyed his tail as well. My roommate and I decided to take him in and take care of him. He’s fully healed, vaccinated, and extremely spoiled! His presence has helped me a lot in dealing with the loneliness that comes every now and then from being in a new country.

Women taking selfies with a reindeer hat.
Two women posing with a cat and reindeer hat.

December 2021

During winter break, I met up with an old friend from Lebanon at a German Christmas market in Indiana! He’s been living in the United States for the past few years, so it was great to see him while we are both living in the same country!

Man and woman posing with a Christmas tree.

January 2022

I went on a hike to a national park in rural Tennessee. I was able to discover the quiet, southern life outside of the city and how gorgeous the trails are in Tennessee!

Woman posing with a tree next to a waterfall.

Studying with the Fulbright Program has given me the chance to meet students from all over the world. My friend from South Korea invited me to her birthday celebration!

Group of women in a restaurant.

As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve grown very close to my roommate. She’s become my best friend in the United States, and we often go out for dinner together.

Back in Lebanon, my family celebrated my nephew’s second birthday, so they included me in the celebration by FaceTiming with me!

I can’t get enough of my cat, Oreo! He’s become one of the best parts about living in the United States.

Woman posing with a cat.

February 2022

February was a quiet month for me, but I did enjoy making tabbouleh for my roommate. She’s become a fan of Lebanese food since we met, so she loved it of course!

Woman posing with a bowl of tabbouleh.

It was nice to have a fun Friday night with my classmates in Knoxville!

Groups of women posing in a bathroom.

March 2022

During March, I was able to spend spring break with my partner and travel to Dallas, Texas with him. It was my first trip to Texas, so we had a blast!

Man and woman taking a polaroid.

I also worked very hard to finish preparing for a fundraiser that I led with the Graduate Student Organization at the University of Tennessee Knoxville. We are raising money to help end period poverty in Lebanon.

Two women sitting on the floor doing crafts.

Because of my work on the fundraiser and my research for an upcoming book publication, I was recognized as an “Outstanding Graduate Student” by the University of Tennesse’s College of Education Health and Human Sciences department. I feel so lucky to be recognized as a “super star” of graduate students!

Woman posing in a promotional poster.

April 2022

In April, I was able to celebrate Easter with the Lebanese family that I met last year when I arrived! I even brought my American friend Cailyn along to join in on the festivities.

Group of people sitting at a table..
Two women in dresses posing outside.

On my campus, I had the chance to give a presentation before multiple sororities to discuss the economic crisis in Lebanon and to raise money to combat period poverty in an initiative called a “Pad for Lebanon.”

Group of people in an auditorium.

May 2022

I presented at the International Congress of Qualitative Inquiry. The presentation was about the past, present, and future of early childhood research.

Woman taking a selfie.

I went on my first trip to the West Coast when I attended the Arab American Heritage Gala in California! It was an absolutely wonderful experience.

Woman and man in professional attie.

I taught my Korean friend how to say “Marhaba, habibi” in Arabic, or “Hello, my love.”

Two women taking selfies outside.

I also had the chance to hang out with my Lebanese friend in Knoxville, who is also a Fulbright alumna!

Two women sitting outside.

Nagham is a Fulbright Student from Lebanon. She is studying Child Psychology at the University of Tennessee-Knoxville.

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